Why hello, there. I’m trying to play catch up in several aspects of my life, including my blog. I think I’ve gotten up to speed with school, but several things still nag me and I figured I’d go ahead and tackle this one before I get too guilt.
On Monday, February 8, my boyfriend’s father, Jim Fletcher, passed away in Columbus, Georgia.. We received the call sometime after 9 PM, and while his father had battled heart disease for decades, this call was still a surprise. We took off in the middle of the night from Atlanta and reached Columbus around 2 AM. I left without taking any schoolwork so I got really behind. Things went as well as they could during the week of the funeral- we were surround by family and friends the whole time. My boyfriend’s father taught high school English & Humanities for over 25 years, and also taught at two local universities. All week long I heard stories about how much his teaching inspired his students- this was a man who was dedicated to changing the lives of teenagers through literature, music, and art. He invited his students to his home on many occasions to watch interesting movies and listen to his extensive classical music collection. He took field trips to Atlanta, and even to a monastery in Conyers! Needless to say, he touched many lives and there was a good representation of Hardaway High School alums and faculty during the week.
As for me, I try not to get too sad, but I considered Jim to be not only practically a father-in-law, but also a teaching mentor. He has given me many books, and we had planned to get together while I finish grad school to talk about lesson plans and teaching literature. I do get sad when I think that I won’t share my graduation with him next Spring. I think of other things I wanted him to be at in my future, but I will have to settle for keeping him in my heart instead.
As for life after all of that… it’s messy, literally. I’m almost caught up in my grad work, but I still feel like I’m a day behind on planning for student teaching. I also started choreographing for a show choir (what?!) so there are worksheets, CDs, dance shoes, flashcards, and tons of yarn all over the place. Nothing gets put away and nothing really has a place right now.

As you can see, the Yarn Monster has taken over my work table. Underneath the yarn are some half-buried flashcards I made for my students. I had high hopes about getting more items in my Etsy shop and finishing my cardigan before March. HA!
Oh yeah, we canceled our trip to San Francisco. In the wake of Jim’s death, there’s just to much to take care of involving my boyfriend’s inheritance. So yeah, Stay-Cation in Columbus, Georgia. I have promised myself that I WILL NOT get mopey about it and that we’ll have fun- going to local museums, eating tons of BBQ, and maybe a mini trip to a farm in Alabama.
I just had to put this out, mostly for my own peace of mind. I’m still working on some posts about knitting/yarn apps, and I’ll have some progress photos of my cardi soon, too.
Stay well!